2010年6月13日星期日

婚紗照

身邊久不久便會聽到別人結婚的消息,我承認是我個人的問題,我的碓好厭倦看人家的婚紗照。

OK,人家花了幾皮嘢很用心機去拍的婚紗照,我是好應該尊重的。表面上我當然會客客氣氣,恭維幾句,但問心,你見過幾多對新人的婚紗照是看了會眼前一亮的?我就無囉!來來去去,不是海邊就是草地,再不就迪欣湖;不是躺著就是挨著,再不就對望;同一個景同一個姿勢,看了九萬幾次,還有甚麼驚喜?

還有那套長裙,那個妝容,那串頭飾,不是千遍一律得很嗎?我不知道別人怎樣想,但在於我這個旁觀者,我著實覺得一點誠意也沒有,貼錢買難受。

最最最難頂的,就是主人家自以為是的態度。我的意思是,當事人總沾沾自喜的把那本又厚又重但不過才幾頁的相簿,一傳十、十傳百地供人翻閱。別人讚美兩句,便飄飄然得自比李嘉欣。或者是我把話說得太過了,但無可否認,過份自信便成為自大,情況就像有些老母,愛把自己的女兒當作白雪公主一樣,又城堡床又晚裝裙,嘔心得很。

當我黑心也好,唔抵得都好,但抱歉我實在無法蒙著眼墮入你的角色,也無法體會你的喜悅。你的大日子,其實是你的事;你愛扮公主王子,同樣我不予置評。只是,嗯,別企圖把別人拉來當你的配角,妄想在你這位主角身邊團團轉。

10 則留言:

The Man Who Loves Everton 說...

I quite agree with what you've just said. A very simple wedding is what i want because the woman i love most is the only thing i really want in my simple wedding.

揚眉女子 說...

Thanks for your support!

selina 說...

結婚,確係勞民傷財又擾民..五皮幾六皮野,貴夾唔好食,食一餐大家都唔enjoy的飯,純粹益了餐飲業。至於婚紗相的千篇一律,不贅,我覺得慘在大家都覺這些(擺酒、影婚紗相)好老土好老土,然後到結婚時唔知點解又跟大隊做,無無謂謂。是誰set這些無謂公式?

btw, you are quoted in a newspaper article today(Economic Times, A31) regarding property market.

揚眉女子 說...

下?? 我?? 講乜架?

selina 說...

http://www.hket.com/eti/search/article.do?id=9ba5ca6d-139c-4047-8892-d9484b0b5535-335984

to be frank, i don't think it is a polite gesture to name someone's blog in a newspaper article without prior notification, although strictly speaking one can argue what is written in a blog is in the public domain.

i am 30 and hv no property.i guess timing/skills/knowledge is important when it comes to buying ppty. having saved enough 首期 is important as it cushions us from the risk of a too-high debt ratio.

十萬廿萬都攞唔到,就唔好買樓,其實冇講錯...就算政府推出首置貸款,其實都要還的..反而重推居屋/找其他方式推D實用非發水的中產盤,可以諗諗...

揚眉女子 說...

Thanks for letting me know the article.

關於呢個問題, 我始終覺得樓係你自己, 錢係你自己, 與其求人(政府), 點解唔求自己.

新鮮人 說...

一世人一次,
為人錦上添花總是好,
同樣地,
自己結婚時也希望多些人為自己添光!

揚眉女子 說...

真係close 既朋友, 當然.
不過d 見下面點下頭又唔多聯絡既朋友, sorry, 真心唔出.

匿名 說...

That's quite true. Indeed when i got married a couple years ago i didn't have any engagement or wedding pictures, no banquet as both my hubby and i wished; but my in laws indeed want some nice pictures and a big banquet sharing with friends and family. looking back i do think it's a tradition and a way for them to express and share happiness... and mark the moment of having one more family tie... though i agree that the process of picture taking and banquet is really 難頂 and not necessary... however marriage is indeed a merge of 2 families, not just between two people. so sometimes i would also wonder if i am too selfish and disregard the feelings of the in laws or even my parents... A

揚眉女子 說...

A,

In case if "families" wish to do like this, then just do it... once.